such a jacka** no matter how old I get!!! I am sooo angry right now!! My brother moved back to our state about 9 years ago-- when my mother asked why he decided to move back he told her that it was so that he could put her in an "old folks" home. Needless to say--- my mom was upset and and told me that it was up to me to defend them and NOT let him do that. My folk's are not that old--my dad will be 69 this coming month and my mom will be 67. Well after being here a while he has decided to move on since my parents are not willing to "give it all up" just because he says so. His kids are all grown and gone now except one that will graduate in 2011. "They" (my sister in law)decided that she was not going to make him move and change schools during his senior year (not that it stopped them from doing it when their oldest child was a senior BUT.... He decided to take an out of state job and the plan was--is for his wife to move with him once their youngest graduated. My sister in law is NOT a big fan of this plan however she went to go visit with him this weekend and I am "watching" their youngest who is now 17. He is a good kid and I have NO problems with that. When his wife left she text us that she was leaving and when she was safely at "home" with my brother. GREAT!! Tonight I text my nephew if his mom was coming home tonight and he said that he had no idea when she was coming home.(That is pretty typical with their family-- they never know what the right hand is doing.) Sooo I text my sister in law to ask IF she was coming in tonight to tomorrow---I was 1st concerned for her safe trip because the wind here is really bad and 2nd wanting to know how long I should be checking on my nephew (FYI--they had me watch the older "kids" before and I broke up an underage party and he was mad at ME after he was the one that told them they could stay there alone and I would just "check" on them.) I Love his family to death. I have a great relationship with his wife, daughter and youngest son. After my nephew said he did not know I TEXT my sister in law and my brother sent me a hateful message "thanking" me for "messing up" his last night with his wife and signs off with oh yeah i am fine thanks for asking. I have tried MORE than several times to contact him since he has been gone. I text him, instant messaged when he is on line, left a message on his cell phone, posted messages on face book and IM'd him online with facebook and I have had no response. Tonight ---he accused me of Fu**ing up his time with his wife and I told him i was only checking on her due date back for her safety and he said I only wanted my sister in law back in town to fix my computer problems and then hung up and I called him back and said that I was just checking on her and he called me a liar and hung up again. UGH!! I had made a comment to my daughter online several days ago that my monitor was going out. I told my sister in law that the screen gets white and it "jumps" around and asked her for her opinion if it was just the monitor or if the whole computer was getting ready to crash. I NEVER asked her for help to fix it or even look at it . The entire conversation took a lot less time than it took ME to write this now. I honestly was just checking in on her to see if she was coming in tonight because she is on a small plane and the wind is really bad!! Now I am sitting here writing this crying and waiting to see if my daughter gets home safe too. oh she just text me --she is fine--i will go to bed now and just hope and pray that my sister in law gets home safe sometime since my brother is such a jerk and won't tell us when she is coming or anything. Then he wonders why his own kids won't tell him when they come and go. JERK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!