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OMG. Now Jumper is crying over J. And I can't do anything
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 540407" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I know you're very upset about the impending divorce, and Jumper's at an age that is difficult for EVERYONE around them. I'm worried that you are lingering on things that you can not change, and that those things are negatively affecting your life. What are you doing for your own well being? Your children need you to be strong at a time like this. Rather than needing you to worry or be angry on their behalf, they need you to show them that in spite of life's troubles we can live relatively pleasant and productive lives.</p><p></p><p>Have you seen your therapist lately? From the outside looking in at your posts here - and I could be missing the good things that are going on in your life right now because you are not posting about them - it seems that you are letting their problems overwhelm you. Can you make an appointment and get an objective opinion from your therapist? You're not sleeping because of J, and the divorce, and Jumper's friends. All of these things that are outside of your control seem to be making you miserable. I know that for me, if I'm not careful and allow myself to get into a funk, the funk can quickly become a depression that I can't get out of. I worry that you are setting yourself up for a serious downward moodswing that you won't come out of. Your children need you to be healthy and able to help and advise them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 540407, member: 99"] I know you're very upset about the impending divorce, and Jumper's at an age that is difficult for EVERYONE around them. I'm worried that you are lingering on things that you can not change, and that those things are negatively affecting your life. What are you doing for your own well being? Your children need you to be strong at a time like this. Rather than needing you to worry or be angry on their behalf, they need you to show them that in spite of life's troubles we can live relatively pleasant and productive lives. Have you seen your therapist lately? From the outside looking in at your posts here - and I could be missing the good things that are going on in your life right now because you are not posting about them - it seems that you are letting their problems overwhelm you. Can you make an appointment and get an objective opinion from your therapist? You're not sleeping because of J, and the divorce, and Jumper's friends. All of these things that are outside of your control seem to be making you miserable. I know that for me, if I'm not careful and allow myself to get into a funk, the funk can quickly become a depression that I can't get out of. I worry that you are setting yourself up for a serious downward moodswing that you won't come out of. Your children need you to be healthy and able to help and advise them. [/QUOTE]
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