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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 253789" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>They sent me a brief, type-written thingy that says "room & board---cost; education---cost per day based on 7 days weeks". That was it. It was obviously not a written policy. </p><p></p><p>Then, the "cm" called and said she has a call into the county team to see about the certificate of need. I said good, could you mention to them that we may need some county funding after all- and the lady she's going to speak with should know about this educational billing and asked the cm to discuss that as well. Then I asked if she could just request a county meeting and she said no because she doesn't know difficult child or me so she would not be comfortable advocating for us and that it would need to be the po. I told her that I had asked the po about it a long time ago and that she would not do it. The cm said it was her understanding that this is still the po's position. So, that puts us right back where we started from.</p><p></p><p>Then, I went out for a bit and rec'd a message from gal while I was gone. It said that she had not heard from the sw at all and had no idea why a county meeting had not been scheduled yet. And that she was not aware of any plans for anything. Then, she said that a show cause motion had been placed against me for not taking a psychiatric test. She said the mst guy told her that he had given me several chances and I had refused so I had broken the judge's order and would have to answer for it. </p><p></p><p>So- what do they do with a parent if it gets to a point where the parent flat-out refuses to "work with" (aka- stop following orders) from the people in the court services unit? These are the people in probation and mst who are assigned to monitor those on probation, and apparently order the parents around? If their goal is to make sure THEY are monitoring difficult child, placing him with dss where he gets moved out of state doesn't serve that purpose does it?</p><p></p><p>Well, I called the clerk's office. She said it's not showing in the computer yet, which tells me it was filed today. She said normally there would be an arraignment and I would get a court appointment attny if I couldn't afford one, but since difficult child's court is so soon, I might have to answer to it then. So, if I'm supposed to have opportunity to have a court appointment attny, what happens if I'm in court before then?</p><p></p><p>The GAL did not asked me to return her call but said I could call her if I had questions. Do you think I should call her? I had asked her almost 3 weeks ago to discuss a referral to a county meeting with the PO.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 253789, member: 3699"] They sent me a brief, type-written thingy that says "room & board---cost; education---cost per day based on 7 days weeks". That was it. It was obviously not a written policy. Then, the "cm" called and said she has a call into the county team to see about the certificate of need. I said good, could you mention to them that we may need some county funding after all- and the lady she's going to speak with should know about this educational billing and asked the cm to discuss that as well. Then I asked if she could just request a county meeting and she said no because she doesn't know difficult child or me so she would not be comfortable advocating for us and that it would need to be the po. I told her that I had asked the po about it a long time ago and that she would not do it. The cm said it was her understanding that this is still the po's position. So, that puts us right back where we started from. Then, I went out for a bit and rec'd a message from gal while I was gone. It said that she had not heard from the sw at all and had no idea why a county meeting had not been scheduled yet. And that she was not aware of any plans for anything. Then, she said that a show cause motion had been placed against me for not taking a psychiatric test. She said the mst guy told her that he had given me several chances and I had refused so I had broken the judge's order and would have to answer for it. So- what do they do with a parent if it gets to a point where the parent flat-out refuses to "work with" (aka- stop following orders) from the people in the court services unit? These are the people in probation and mst who are assigned to monitor those on probation, and apparently order the parents around? If their goal is to make sure THEY are monitoring difficult child, placing him with dss where he gets moved out of state doesn't serve that purpose does it? Well, I called the clerk's office. She said it's not showing in the computer yet, which tells me it was filed today. She said normally there would be an arraignment and I would get a court appointment attny if I couldn't afford one, but since difficult child's court is so soon, I might have to answer to it then. So, if I'm supposed to have opportunity to have a court appointment attny, what happens if I'm in court before then? The GAL did not asked me to return her call but said I could call her if I had questions. Do you think I should call her? I had asked her almost 3 weeks ago to discuss a referral to a county meeting with the PO. [/QUOTE]
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