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One Year Later-lots has happened, nothing has changed, at the end of my rope
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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 631899" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>Scott, nothing is black or white here. I would say run if not for your finances. There is going to have to be some compromises on both of your parts whatever you decide. I totally get that he will not change and now your wife is footing the bill, he will be 60 and still like this. You know it and so do we. Is it better to have happiness alone and lose your money? Is that possible and do you want it? Your wife may not change. Maybe you can agree to something lesser that will make you both happy. Even if it's giving your son money. Both of you can agree on an amount and she will be honest. There won't be a perfect answer for either of you. Know that. I know you love her. I hope she can compromise in some form. If not, talk to an attorney, just talk and feel things out. Get your ducks in row. I don't really mean that. I want things to work out for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 631899, member: 2668"] Scott, nothing is black or white here. I would say run if not for your finances. There is going to have to be some compromises on both of your parts whatever you decide. I totally get that he will not change and now your wife is footing the bill, he will be 60 and still like this. You know it and so do we. Is it better to have happiness alone and lose your money? Is that possible and do you want it? Your wife may not change. Maybe you can agree to something lesser that will make you both happy. Even if it's giving your son money. Both of you can agree on an amount and she will be honest. There won't be a perfect answer for either of you. Know that. I know you love her. I hope she can compromise in some form. If not, talk to an attorney, just talk and feel things out. Get your ducks in row. I don't really mean that. I want things to work out for you. [/QUOTE]
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