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I need some support with dealing with life. I have way too much on my plate and I need to find the courage to make some changes. difficult child and husband are constantly going at it. husband's drinking has gotten out of control and difficult child is unable to keep emotions or feelings to himself. So daily he's telling husband that he hates him, he's ruined his life and can't wait for him to move out. I want husband out but he's not going gracefully. I can't deal with the tension any more. I'm depressed. I feel like a failure on every level. I can't seem to get anything right.
husband can't accept that difficult child has special needs. He simply sees him as being an out of control, wild and spoiled child. We have never been on the same page about this. husband constantly complains about me being a bad parent for allowing him to get away with his behaviors. I think I'm doing the best I can. Though the more tension that is in difficult child environment the more he clings to me and it isn't good for his developing independence (separation anxiety issues).
I don't know that I'm asking for here. I just needed a chance to vent and hopefully a kind word of encouragement. Thanks, MicheleL
husband can't accept that difficult child has special needs. He simply sees him as being an out of control, wild and spoiled child. We have never been on the same page about this. husband constantly complains about me being a bad parent for allowing him to get away with his behaviors. I think I'm doing the best I can. Though the more tension that is in difficult child environment the more he clings to me and it isn't good for his developing independence (separation anxiety issues).
I don't know that I'm asking for here. I just needed a chance to vent and hopefully a kind word of encouragement. Thanks, MicheleL