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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 694474" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is a reality. There is no overcoming it. It must be faced. In my mind, you cannot get past it:</p><p></p><p>I agree with a dad:You cannot control this situation as long as you make it and see it <em>about her. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>She cannot become or change into a different person, because you want her too. </p><p></p><p>If she is willing to let you see your grandchild, that is more than many grandparents have. </p><p></p><p>If you accept the situation and get past the wishing it were different, and insisting it should be, you can find a way to do it, I think. Make your own conditions, too. That you pick him up at a place and time where you feel dignity and respect. Demand that. </p><p></p><p>Millions of people who share custody with ex-es they hate and who abused them find a way to exchange their kids back and forth. They do so in neutral and public places. You can do this! I would not take crumbs (begging for her). But how can your grandchild ever be crumbs! Your grandchildren needs his grandparents. You can do this. </p><p></p><p>Your daughter has taken herself off the table, because you choose not to accept her mistreatment. Take back your power!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 694474, member: 18958"] This is a reality. There is no overcoming it. It must be faced. In my mind, you cannot get past it: I agree with a dad:You cannot control this situation as long as you make it and see it [I]about her. [/I] She cannot become or change into a different person, because you want her too. If she is willing to let you see your grandchild, that is more than many grandparents have. If you accept the situation and get past the wishing it were different, and insisting it should be, you can find a way to do it, I think. Make your own conditions, too. That you pick him up at a place and time where you feel dignity and respect. Demand that. Millions of people who share custody with ex-es they hate and who abused them find a way to exchange their kids back and forth. They do so in neutral and public places. You can do this! I would not take crumbs (begging for her). But how can your grandchild ever be crumbs! Your grandchildren needs his grandparents. You can do this. Your daughter has taken herself off the table, because you choose not to accept her mistreatment. Take back your power!!! [/QUOTE]
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