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<blockquote data-quote="idohope" data-source="post: 342704" data-attributes="member: 7722"><p>I have had two bus incidents (with my PCs who could be difficult child/PCs). I became aware of one when an angry father came to my house and told me that my son had punched his daughter and that if it happened again he would be sending the police. husband was not home at the time and I felt very threatened by this man. (although the incident happened on the way to school the bus driver and the school were unaware of it) I accept that easy child had no right to hit this girl but she also had no right to taunt my child including sitting behind him and pulling his hair. </p><p></p><p>In addition to the other advice you have received I would contact the school and ask them what they will be doing to ensure that your child is protected from what ever bullying and taunting may have precipitated this event.</p><p></p><p>It starts early and my littlest one also recently had a bus incident which resulted in the principal calling me. He was upset because someone called him a name and another kid laughed at him. He struck out physically which is not OK but in later discussing the incident with him his eyes welled up in tears as he said " I told the bus driver and he did not do anything". (bus was parked at the school at this point)</p><p></p><p>I dont want my kids to "tattle" at every little thing but when you have kids with issues, struggling with impulse control, and you get them to do the right thing and tell an adult when they are upset, it would be good if the adult responded and helped them. There is no doubt that their strong reactions are well known by other kids and make them a target for bullying. </p><p></p><p>I will be thinking of you and your family</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="idohope, post: 342704, member: 7722"] I have had two bus incidents (with my PCs who could be difficult child/PCs). I became aware of one when an angry father came to my house and told me that my son had punched his daughter and that if it happened again he would be sending the police. husband was not home at the time and I felt very threatened by this man. (although the incident happened on the way to school the bus driver and the school were unaware of it) I accept that easy child had no right to hit this girl but she also had no right to taunt my child including sitting behind him and pulling his hair. In addition to the other advice you have received I would contact the school and ask them what they will be doing to ensure that your child is protected from what ever bullying and taunting may have precipitated this event. It starts early and my littlest one also recently had a bus incident which resulted in the principal calling me. He was upset because someone called him a name and another kid laughed at him. He struck out physically which is not OK but in later discussing the incident with him his eyes welled up in tears as he said " I told the bus driver and he did not do anything". (bus was parked at the school at this point) I dont want my kids to "tattle" at every little thing but when you have kids with issues, struggling with impulse control, and you get them to do the right thing and tell an adult when they are upset, it would be good if the adult responded and helped them. There is no doubt that their strong reactions are well known by other kids and make them a target for bullying. I will be thinking of you and your family [/QUOTE]
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