Out of control 18 year old Daughter

svengandhi

Well-Known Member
Your story made me so sad. I am also in NY but have not had the same level of issues as you do.

Might I suggest that you install an alarm system with motion sensors on the windows and inform the police that you are doing so? You might also want to inform your daughter as well. Put jewelry in a safe deposit box, along with important family papers that she might steal to do identity theft with.

You should also find out if you are allowed to lock her out at night. I honestly am not sure and I'm a lawyer. We never locked our now 21 year old out even when he came home at 4 AM but he did not drink, do drugs or steal from us, he just was an immature idiot who defied curfew. I think locking her out is a great idea, I'm just not sure it's allowed in our state.
 
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