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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 454141"><p>I agree 100% with what keista has said so far. It sounds like nothing is going to change unless you start thinking like he does, not trying to make him think like you. It must be so hard for a little kid like him with rules and routines that are continually changing. It is very possible that you are "assuming" why he does and says what he does in most situations. If you really want to change things, start asking him why. Don't assume, ask. He may not have the "right" words but with patience and attempting to get to the REAL bottom of each issue, I think things can improve. You will learn to understand how HE thinks so you can prevent these tantrums and he will learn that you actually care enough to LISTEN to him. Sorry, this is just my opinion based on the information I have.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 454141"] I agree 100% with what keista has said so far. It sounds like nothing is going to change unless you start thinking like he does, not trying to make him think like you. It must be so hard for a little kid like him with rules and routines that are continually changing. It is very possible that you are "assuming" why he does and says what he does in most situations. If you really want to change things, start asking him why. Don't assume, ask. He may not have the "right" words but with patience and attempting to get to the REAL bottom of each issue, I think things can improve. You will learn to understand how HE thinks so you can prevent these tantrums and he will learn that you actually care enough to LISTEN to him. Sorry, this is just my opinion based on the information I have. [/QUOTE]
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