cutietwinkletoes
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My husband is the youngest of 4 kids, he has never lived away from his parents since we have been together and particularly since we married I have begged him to move as I am sick of the family interventions he of course wont. It is fustrating when in the morning we are fine but if he has been anywhere near "mummy" we end up fighting, I am a "control freak" etc pregnancy was hard for me as he lost his job and we moved house (into one owned by his parents) so we fought alot, his parents mainly mum didnt make it easier they would constantly interfare by taking him away from "the psycho wife" well all woman go crazy when they are pregnant. His siblings were often making surprise vists from out of town far more frequently then normal, it seemed like my husband needed to be helped and I was left to sink or swim on my own, he left me when I was pregnant but "mum" sent him home because I threatened to take baby with me and she knew if I left when I was pregnant and he had already left me then she would loose that grandchild, so she used stratagy. Now since my son is here things have somewhat settled down except now for being constantly undermined, my mother in law telling my child he has a "paranoid mother" because I do not do things her way like leave my child unattended like she did when she took him off me to "console him" after I told her it was fine she left him in a pram ALONE at 3 months old of course I told her it wasnt appropriate I freaked when I couldnt find him and her response "its fine" they also contstantly call my husband to do things for them inwhich they must say bad things about me because he comes home accusatory and we end up fighting, no matter how much I have told my hubby I cant take this any more and to tell his parents to back off, he wont and I am lost in wondering if things will change or how to change me in order to make things better I have tried to tell them myself they go deaf on me and he wont back me up I dont want my child to suffer because of this and I dont want my inlaws to win by pushing me out of my own family
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