My 3 year-old son DJ has me stressed out and in tears daily. We have him in counseling. It's not working. He's violent, mean to his 2 year-old brother and 3-month old sister. I am fearful that he will hurt them really bad one time and the affect it will have on him. Sometimes it seems like he has no remorse and doesn't care and other times he's extremely upset and crying, my patience is exhausted and I feel like I live in constant anxiety and fearful he will hurt someone or himself............I give up!!