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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 275117" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>OK. That answered a bunch of questions there... Has he always acted this way toward you or is it a new thing? Is he jealous of the attention the other children receive from you?</p><p> </p><p>It sounds like <em>he</em> has a problem with <em>you</em> - that said it's pretty obvious that you are trying your best, so it's not your fault.</p><p> </p><p>Does <em>biomom</em> have an issue with you? It could be projecting...</p><p> </p><p>...My difficult children' biomom was polite in the beginning, and then after husband and I got married, suddenly difficult child 1 got hostile. The kid that called me "Mama C" suddenly was stealing things from me, lashing out. Then it got <em>really bad</em> when she was abused by biomom's boyfriend (AKA creep). Since we found out and husband has gotten custody, difficult child 1 has refused to visit biomom and things are much, MUCH better.</p><p> </p><p>After all that... There's definitely <em>something</em> wrong. You are <strong><em>NOT</em></strong> going overboard. Your # 1 priority is protecting the other children. Something we had to do... Was call the cops. Haven't had to in a while, but for a bit there it was too frequently. And the counseling needs to continue. See if they can push for a full evaluation - they may have more "professional" pull.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs comin' your way!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 275117, member: 6705"] OK. That answered a bunch of questions there... Has he always acted this way toward you or is it a new thing? Is he jealous of the attention the other children receive from you? It sounds like [I]he[/I] has a problem with [I]you[/I] - that said it's pretty obvious that you are trying your best, so it's not your fault. Does [I]biomom[/I] have an issue with you? It could be projecting... ...My difficult children' biomom was polite in the beginning, and then after husband and I got married, suddenly difficult child 1 got hostile. The kid that called me "Mama C" suddenly was stealing things from me, lashing out. Then it got [I]really bad[/I] when she was abused by biomom's boyfriend (AKA creep). Since we found out and husband has gotten custody, difficult child 1 has refused to visit biomom and things are much, MUCH better. After all that... There's definitely [I]something[/I] wrong. You are [B][I]NOT[/I][/B] going overboard. Your # 1 priority is protecting the other children. Something we had to do... Was call the cops. Haven't had to in a while, but for a bit there it was too frequently. And the counseling needs to continue. See if they can push for a full evaluation - they may have more "professional" pull. Hugs comin' your way! [/QUOTE]
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