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Overwhelmed with dysfunction...just venting
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<blockquote data-quote="BackintheSaddle" data-source="post: 618807" data-attributes="member: 17503"><p>Hello All-- thanks so much for such great responses!...THEY are the crazy ones!...not surprisingly, I didn't sleep so good last night and I got up and read the note from EA and sent her this one below privately (I was teasing you, MWM, I hope you know that-- we were both up in the wee hours!)...should I send a straightforward email to my not 100% father to tell him how he's being manipulated (see below)?...I still haven't sent it and can't decide-- it does that math for him in terms of how much money my difficult child has and how he's using him for all he can get--</p><p></p><p>...I got up to write my father an email to educate him on how he's being manipulated right now...I'd bet money that how that email got started is my difficult child asked my father to pay his bills because his mean old mother (me) won't anymore and, if difficult child doesn't have help, he'll have to quit school...he's great at using that poor pitiful me kind of tactic to get what he wants...he can pay that bill but I bet he's convinced my father that he can't so my father is mad at me for 'putting' him in that position, even though it was his choice to allow difficult child live with him...I haven't sent the email yet..can't decide if it's worth more drama since it could very easily backfire on me-- that my father tells difficult child about the email and boy, will he be mad then (and what is he capable of doing to me?---I am afraid of him, to be frank)...those people with only easy child kids are so blessed, I hope they realize it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BackintheSaddle, post: 618807, member: 17503"] Hello All-- thanks so much for such great responses!...THEY are the crazy ones!...not surprisingly, I didn't sleep so good last night and I got up and read the note from EA and sent her this one below privately (I was teasing you, MWM, I hope you know that-- we were both up in the wee hours!)...should I send a straightforward email to my not 100% father to tell him how he's being manipulated (see below)?...I still haven't sent it and can't decide-- it does that math for him in terms of how much money my difficult child has and how he's using him for all he can get-- ...I got up to write my father an email to educate him on how he's being manipulated right now...I'd bet money that how that email got started is my difficult child asked my father to pay his bills because his mean old mother (me) won't anymore and, if difficult child doesn't have help, he'll have to quit school...he's great at using that poor pitiful me kind of tactic to get what he wants...he can pay that bill but I bet he's convinced my father that he can't so my father is mad at me for 'putting' him in that position, even though it was his choice to allow difficult child live with him...I haven't sent the email yet..can't decide if it's worth more drama since it could very easily backfire on me-- that my father tells difficult child about the email and boy, will he be mad then (and what is he capable of doing to me?---I am afraid of him, to be frank)...those people with only easy child kids are so blessed, I hope they realize it! [/QUOTE]
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