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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 412049" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>CB, write up all that they said in the meetings and send an email or letter to "recap" the meeting. Also do this after each phone call or other verbal interaction with them. It shows what you perceived that they said. Be sure to put a line at the bottom about how if this isn't correct to please let you know. When they don't respond this becomes a record of the meeting and what was discussed/agreed upon. If fthey send back a letter with corrections, then you can reply if what they said isn't correct. This also becomes a written record of what transpired. </p><p> </p><p>then you have proof that they said this that or the other.</p><p> </p><p>Also call whoever is in charge of social services in your state. AND your state and federal representatives - it can be surprising what they can help you accomplish. If you don't get help, start going to the media. remember that facebook and twitter are now powerful influences on public opinion. You may be able to use that to some advantage if you need to apply pressure to them. </p><p> </p><p>Be SURE to call all the groups Janet said, and also look for Jewish charities. You do NOT have to be a member of the religion for them to help you. If you can, call local pastors/ministers/priests and ask what services they are aware of. If you tell them the basic story and ask if they know of any help and they say know, ask them who you can call to find more resources.</p><p> </p><p>You should also check out some of the national sex abuse/incest groups. They may know how to help you find help. It cannot hurt to ask, after all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 412049, member: 1233"] CB, write up all that they said in the meetings and send an email or letter to "recap" the meeting. Also do this after each phone call or other verbal interaction with them. It shows what you perceived that they said. Be sure to put a line at the bottom about how if this isn't correct to please let you know. When they don't respond this becomes a record of the meeting and what was discussed/agreed upon. If fthey send back a letter with corrections, then you can reply if what they said isn't correct. This also becomes a written record of what transpired. then you have proof that they said this that or the other. Also call whoever is in charge of social services in your state. AND your state and federal representatives - it can be surprising what they can help you accomplish. If you don't get help, start going to the media. remember that facebook and twitter are now powerful influences on public opinion. You may be able to use that to some advantage if you need to apply pressure to them. Be SURE to call all the groups Janet said, and also look for Jewish charities. You do NOT have to be a member of the religion for them to help you. If you can, call local pastors/ministers/priests and ask what services they are aware of. If you tell them the basic story and ask if they know of any help and they say know, ask them who you can call to find more resources. You should also check out some of the national sex abuse/incest groups. They may know how to help you find help. It cannot hurt to ask, after all. [/QUOTE]
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