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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 224330" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>If he is gaining mucles stength very fast it could be a bad advice from his former coach or someone in the team. A sideeffect to such drugs are that people become aggressive.</p><p> </p><p>Expectations are difficult. If the coachs, team-mates apply pressure some can break or seek "shortcuts" by medication if they cannot honor the others. But the worst that could happen is if a person expects too much of him or her self without being able to honor it. It can lead to illness or even suicide.</p><p> </p><p>I am no doctor but only a person working in a large organization having some responsibilities in the Human Relations department. I would recommend time-off from it all together for 14-21 days. He needs to be away from people and decide on his future. If people didn't die all the time in various wilderness courses it could be a solution to choose one that isn't boot camp orientated. I believe that I saw one down in Mesa, Arizona. However it only has one problem, it should be his choice all the way. You can not force it on him and get anything positive out of it. Also it is too expensive if he is not positive about it before entering it.</p><p> </p><p>In Michigan I only know about a weekend boot camp in Howell and it would only be felt like a punishment. It wouldn't help him to decide about his future. It wouldn't give him the peace he need. A totally other solution would be to pay for a plane ticket to Norway and give him a Scanrail card plus a Hostel card for 30 days and a sum of money to live on. </p><p> </p><p>Of course there are no therapy in Scandiavia for him to find, but would it really help him? I feel that the core of the problem is that his life is running him rather that he is running his life.</p><p> </p><p>I hope that he finds direction in his life which could give you peace also. You are free to print this post out and give it to him. I give you my dearest support in such difficult times.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 224330, member: 6326"] If he is gaining mucles stength very fast it could be a bad advice from his former coach or someone in the team. A sideeffect to such drugs are that people become aggressive. Expectations are difficult. If the coachs, team-mates apply pressure some can break or seek "shortcuts" by medication if they cannot honor the others. But the worst that could happen is if a person expects too much of him or her self without being able to honor it. It can lead to illness or even suicide. I am no doctor but only a person working in a large organization having some responsibilities in the Human Relations department. I would recommend time-off from it all together for 14-21 days. He needs to be away from people and decide on his future. If people didn't die all the time in various wilderness courses it could be a solution to choose one that isn't boot camp orientated. I believe that I saw one down in Mesa, Arizona. However it only has one problem, it should be his choice all the way. You can not force it on him and get anything positive out of it. Also it is too expensive if he is not positive about it before entering it. In Michigan I only know about a weekend boot camp in Howell and it would only be felt like a punishment. It wouldn't help him to decide about his future. It wouldn't give him the peace he need. A totally other solution would be to pay for a plane ticket to Norway and give him a Scanrail card plus a Hostel card for 30 days and a sum of money to live on. Of course there are no therapy in Scandiavia for him to find, but would it really help him? I feel that the core of the problem is that his life is running him rather that he is running his life. I hope that he finds direction in his life which could give you peace also. You are free to print this post out and give it to him. I give you my dearest support in such difficult times. [/QUOTE]
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