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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 172273" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well said, Witz. There are many, many things said so well here. I couldn't help but want to add again (sorry).</p><p></p><p>I hope Suz doesn't mind, but this is from her sig.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>My question is- until we know better, if we are doing everything we can/could, and maybe we did contribute, unknowingly, to things getting worse instead of better, does that make us "at fault" or "to blame"? </p><p></p><p>To me, it is the wording. I don't want to be classified with the same uncaring parent who never made any effort to learn better, I guess. Taking responsibility for the hand I'm dealt is one thing, blaming me for dealing it out is another. (Again- not that I fell attacked by people here- but this is one thing I get defensive and turned off by from others in the "real world".)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 172273, member: 3699"] Well said, Witz. There are many, many things said so well here. I couldn't help but want to add again (sorry). I hope Suz doesn't mind, but this is from her sig. My question is- until we know better, if we are doing everything we can/could, and maybe we did contribute, unknowingly, to things getting worse instead of better, does that make us "at fault" or "to blame"? To me, it is the wording. I don't want to be classified with the same uncaring parent who never made any effort to learn better, I guess. Taking responsibility for the hand I'm dealt is one thing, blaming me for dealing it out is another. (Again- not that I fell attacked by people here- but this is one thing I get defensive and turned off by from others in the "real world".) [/QUOTE]
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