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-Passive aggressive mean-ness towards others...is this really part of his diagnoses??
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<blockquote data-quote="PlainJane" data-source="post: 592117" data-attributes="member: 11700"><p>No he's not adopted. I can understand and appreciate some of his aspie traits because hubby and I can see it in each other. But this isn't the same as the black and white thinking. BOth husband and I see that difference between when he is "correcting". But the shoe example, its not that the shoes looked old, or that he would have ever noticed the shoes, but once the little girl proudly exclaimed her shoes were new, he waited a minute....then said like it wa a spontaneous thought that her shoes look old. Like now he knew how to hurt her feelings a lot worse than just calling her a poop head. </p><p></p><p>We have trouble explaining it to the doctor and he doesn;t do it around her. He is very much aware of and in control of this behavoir, and can stop it infront of the right people, UNLIKE his other aspie traits that are displayed around everyone.</p><p></p><p>This 100% appears to hubby and I as intentional, and we have watched him stopped nid sentence if he realizes someone that he is hiding the behavoir from is listening. The sneekiness is scary. This just doesn;t seem like an aspie trait to hubby or I. We really need to record it for the doctor, but its hard to know exactly when he will do it, and often its done quietly which means a close but hidden camera. He will not do this behavoir in front of the camera. He has told us that he will not let the doctor know he does this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PlainJane, post: 592117, member: 11700"] No he's not adopted. I can understand and appreciate some of his aspie traits because hubby and I can see it in each other. But this isn't the same as the black and white thinking. BOth husband and I see that difference between when he is "correcting". But the shoe example, its not that the shoes looked old, or that he would have ever noticed the shoes, but once the little girl proudly exclaimed her shoes were new, he waited a minute....then said like it wa a spontaneous thought that her shoes look old. Like now he knew how to hurt her feelings a lot worse than just calling her a poop head. We have trouble explaining it to the doctor and he doesn;t do it around her. He is very much aware of and in control of this behavoir, and can stop it infront of the right people, UNLIKE his other aspie traits that are displayed around everyone. This 100% appears to hubby and I as intentional, and we have watched him stopped nid sentence if he realizes someone that he is hiding the behavoir from is listening. The sneekiness is scary. This just doesn;t seem like an aspie trait to hubby or I. We really need to record it for the doctor, but its hard to know exactly when he will do it, and often its done quietly which means a close but hidden camera. He will not do this behavoir in front of the camera. He has told us that he will not let the doctor know he does this. [/QUOTE]
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