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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 255664" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I'm so sorry Linda but at the same time....and this is going to sound weird...this is a good thing in a way. You are processing and while you needed to keep putting one foot in front of the other, obviously its time for you to really start the grieving process. It HOOVERS that you are in the situation to need to do this but you need to do this. Don't feel bad about going through it....you need this. You can't keep it all bottled up, it needs to come out. Be angry, be sad, cry when you need to and come to us or a family member/friend when you need to. </p><p></p><p>There is a process to grief and no two people do it the same. The steps may be the same but the order or intensity are different with different people. And if anyone gives you any carp about "Well, I thought you were doing soooo well"....pfft. Smack 'em with a brick from the emotional wall you just hit.</p><p></p><p>I know it doesn't help in real life, but please know that if you lived closer to any of us....you would have many people there to help with whatever at the drop of a hat, me included. </p><p></p><p>Many, many (((((((((HUGS)))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 255664, member: 2459"] I'm so sorry Linda but at the same time....and this is going to sound weird...this is a good thing in a way. You are processing and while you needed to keep putting one foot in front of the other, obviously its time for you to really start the grieving process. It HOOVERS that you are in the situation to need to do this but you need to do this. Don't feel bad about going through it....you need this. You can't keep it all bottled up, it needs to come out. Be angry, be sad, cry when you need to and come to us or a family member/friend when you need to. There is a process to grief and no two people do it the same. The steps may be the same but the order or intensity are different with different people. And if anyone gives you any carp about "Well, I thought you were doing soooo well"....pfft. Smack 'em with a brick from the emotional wall you just hit. I know it doesn't help in real life, but please know that if you lived closer to any of us....you would have many people there to help with whatever at the drop of a hat, me included. Many, many (((((((((HUGS))))))))) [/QUOTE]
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