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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 639932" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>I agree with MWM.</p><p> </p><p>If the other people who are live there are going then why can't he ride with one of them instead of wasting gas?</p><p> </p><p>If you are paying for him to live somewhere then he needs to live there. Tell him flat out that you are happy for him to visit twice a week but that you can't afford him eating there every night and want some privacy. He doesn't live there anymore and visitors don't come by every day.</p><p> </p><p>You are not being too harsh. Now is the time to start cutting one thing off at a time. Tell him starting now you will only give him X amount of money for gas. If he has no money to drive there every day then he can't. He will learn to carpool like a normal guy when going to meetings. That would solve two issues with one stone. Less gas means less visits and less cost.</p><p> </p><p>When he gets the job tell him food and gas are now his problem.</p><p> </p><p>When that is steady for a bit hand over the insurance....you get the idea.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 639932, member: 15473"] I agree with MWM. If the other people who are live there are going then why can't he ride with one of them instead of wasting gas? If you are paying for him to live somewhere then he needs to live there. Tell him flat out that you are happy for him to visit twice a week but that you can't afford him eating there every night and want some privacy. He doesn't live there anymore and visitors don't come by every day. You are not being too harsh. Now is the time to start cutting one thing off at a time. Tell him starting now you will only give him X amount of money for gas. If he has no money to drive there every day then he can't. He will learn to carpool like a normal guy when going to meetings. That would solve two issues with one stone. Less gas means less visits and less cost. When he gets the job tell him food and gas are now his problem. When that is steady for a bit hand over the insurance....you get the idea. [/QUOTE]
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