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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 727526" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Tanya M,</em></p><p><em>Thank you for your encouraging words. I want to be strong and many times I sob deep sobs and then I feel better.</em></p><p><em>I understand the pain and dissapointment you felt when you found out your son was not going to college. The same thing happend to me. I took on a extra job because my daughter said she was going to graduate early from college and needed extra money. I sent it to her and she took herself and her friends on cruises. After that she took herself and her boyfriend at the time to Fuji they then flew to New York from there to Disney World. I found this out from a friend of hers that did not want to see us being used like this. The friend saw all this on Facebook and called me to tell me what was going on.</em></p><p><em>Of course I was besides myself. We started putting boundries up right away and went to counseling, alone and together.</em></p><p><em>I remember when my dad paid for some of my college. I was so grateful and thankful. Just like a detective, I have to keep one step ahead of my daughter so she does not continue to rip me off and here we are again, her doing the same stuff.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I remember having an account I shared with her and when she ripped me off I closed that account immediately. I remember her calling me from the grocery store telling me they will not accept her debit card, I remember not feeling bad but feeling justice.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>That is what I have to remember the feeling of justice. Justice feels good and right.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Yes. Justice...I will wallow in that feeling. Now she is trying to rip me off again. She is about to feel the wrath of Justice when I do not sell the house she is living in and she will have to scramble to find a place and the landlord will not let her slide when she is late or cannot make her payments.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I agree Tanya, We can only fix ourselves. Thank you for your wisdom. I am so sorry for your hard road. Sending this with love and compassion.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 727526, member: 22416"] [I]Tanya M, Thank you for your encouraging words. I want to be strong and many times I sob deep sobs and then I feel better. I understand the pain and dissapointment you felt when you found out your son was not going to college. The same thing happend to me. I took on a extra job because my daughter said she was going to graduate early from college and needed extra money. I sent it to her and she took herself and her friends on cruises. After that she took herself and her boyfriend at the time to Fuji they then flew to New York from there to Disney World. I found this out from a friend of hers that did not want to see us being used like this. The friend saw all this on Facebook and called me to tell me what was going on. Of course I was besides myself. We started putting boundries up right away and went to counseling, alone and together. I remember when my dad paid for some of my college. I was so grateful and thankful. Just like a detective, I have to keep one step ahead of my daughter so she does not continue to rip me off and here we are again, her doing the same stuff. I remember having an account I shared with her and when she ripped me off I closed that account immediately. I remember her calling me from the grocery store telling me they will not accept her debit card, I remember not feeling bad but feeling justice. That is what I have to remember the feeling of justice. Justice feels good and right. Yes. Justice...I will wallow in that feeling. Now she is trying to rip me off again. She is about to feel the wrath of Justice when I do not sell the house she is living in and she will have to scramble to find a place and the landlord will not let her slide when she is late or cannot make her payments. I agree Tanya, We can only fix ourselves. Thank you for your wisdom. I am so sorry for your hard road. Sending this with love and compassion.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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