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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 276305" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>I never expected to divorce Husband 1.0. His behavior was very similar to what your H is pulling. He broke his ankle, but rather than get disability till it healed, he tried to go back to work, got fired, then told me to drop out of school with a semester to go. He would also go pick up his three kids, have his brother bring over his kid so the cousins could play, and then they'd take off and leave me with all four kids.</p><p></p><p>I didn't expect to divorce Useless Boy, either. The face he presented during the first half of our relationship was totally opposite the face I finally divorced. Though he wasn't physically abusive, his PA cr@pola really unbalanced me to where I had to get out to save mine and Miss KT's sanity.</p><p></p><p>What I have learned is that no relationship can work unless both people are working at it. It seems to me that your H is not willing to support you in any way, emotionally, financially, whatever, and because of that, he has broken his vow to you. I'm not seeing the love, honor, and cherish that you so richly deserve. Someone who goes out of his way to sabotage you is not cherishing you. I understand your dilemma about divorce, but I believe that sometimes it is the only right answer, especially when you have tried everything to make the relationship work, and the other person is not receptive. You deserve happiness and a fulfilling life. Many, many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 276305, member: 4040"] I never expected to divorce Husband 1.0. His behavior was very similar to what your H is pulling. He broke his ankle, but rather than get disability till it healed, he tried to go back to work, got fired, then told me to drop out of school with a semester to go. He would also go pick up his three kids, have his brother bring over his kid so the cousins could play, and then they'd take off and leave me with all four kids. I didn't expect to divorce Useless Boy, either. The face he presented during the first half of our relationship was totally opposite the face I finally divorced. Though he wasn't physically abusive, his PA cr@pola really unbalanced me to where I had to get out to save mine and Miss KT's sanity. What I have learned is that no relationship can work unless both people are working at it. It seems to me that your H is not willing to support you in any way, emotionally, financially, whatever, and because of that, he has broken his vow to you. I'm not seeing the love, honor, and cherish that you so richly deserve. Someone who goes out of his way to sabotage you is not cherishing you. I understand your dilemma about divorce, but I believe that sometimes it is the only right answer, especially when you have tried everything to make the relationship work, and the other person is not receptive. You deserve happiness and a fulfilling life. Many, many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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