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petrified for 23yo son..
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<blockquote data-quote="SeaGenieTx" data-source="post: 677108" data-attributes="member: 18773"><p>I kicked my son out, set boundaries and he has moved in with a friend and his friends mother (single mom) has been taking care of both in her home. She is even my sons Facebook friend now liking his photos. My son hasn't called or texted me as he hates me and could care less if I'm dead or alive. I have no other family and this is heartbreaking for me but he was so awful and disrespectful towards me living in my home. I wonder if he will ever contact me again - he has obviously found new family quickly and is living rent free with another mom taking care of him. Makes me sick to my stomache because he is probably manipulating them while making me out to be a horrible mom who gave up on him and kicked him out.</p><p></p><p>I think I need to be unpredictable and just go completely silent. See if my son makes any attempt to contact me at all. Then if he does, not respond quickly. In the past I've cracked too quickly and reached out to him so he thinks I'm just sitting around doing nothing pining for him to come back so he is ignoring me. I need to not be available but the sad thing is - he might not even care anymore or ever want to talk to me again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeaGenieTx, post: 677108, member: 18773"] I kicked my son out, set boundaries and he has moved in with a friend and his friends mother (single mom) has been taking care of both in her home. She is even my sons Facebook friend now liking his photos. My son hasn't called or texted me as he hates me and could care less if I'm dead or alive. I have no other family and this is heartbreaking for me but he was so awful and disrespectful towards me living in my home. I wonder if he will ever contact me again - he has obviously found new family quickly and is living rent free with another mom taking care of him. Makes me sick to my stomache because he is probably manipulating them while making me out to be a horrible mom who gave up on him and kicked him out. I think I need to be unpredictable and just go completely silent. See if my son makes any attempt to contact me at all. Then if he does, not respond quickly. In the past I've cracked too quickly and reached out to him so he thinks I'm just sitting around doing nothing pining for him to come back so he is ignoring me. I need to not be available but the sad thing is - he might not even care anymore or ever want to talk to me again. [/QUOTE]
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