Abbey
Spork Queen
I have a brother in law that has basically chosen to be homeless since a teen. I was the last person to see him in prison, and that was probably 17 years ago. Really, really nice guy...just chose this lifestyle. He was in prison for burning down a squater's house when the police came in. Probably not the best choice, but he did it.
Moved to WI and watched my inlaws tear themselves apart about him. I tried to make them understand that he's happy and has no regrets or hatred to them. They don't get it. So I hired a private investigator and found him exactly where I thought he'd be.
The good news is inlaws were vacationing in that area and actually met him on Easter for the first time in 24 years for them. mother in law calls me last night absolutely sobbing. She found her boy after all these years. We chatted for awhile and then I told her not to expect to hear from him again. Enjoy the visit you had and know he is ok.
What a tough thing to know you have a child out there that wants no contact. But, you can't change a person. They have to want change and after 24 years of no contact...I'd say he's a tad stubborn.
Abbey
Moved to WI and watched my inlaws tear themselves apart about him. I tried to make them understand that he's happy and has no regrets or hatred to them. They don't get it. So I hired a private investigator and found him exactly where I thought he'd be.
The good news is inlaws were vacationing in that area and actually met him on Easter for the first time in 24 years for them. mother in law calls me last night absolutely sobbing. She found her boy after all these years. We chatted for awhile and then I told her not to expect to hear from him again. Enjoy the visit you had and know he is ok.
What a tough thing to know you have a child out there that wants no contact. But, you can't change a person. They have to want change and after 24 years of no contact...I'd say he's a tad stubborn.
Abbey