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<blockquote data-quote="Californiablonde" data-source="post: 518742" data-attributes="member: 2196"><p>Thanks Midwest Mom. To answer your question, I generally feel safe around my kids. When difficult child 1 smothered difficult child 2 it was basically for a few second before she let him go. Still not the best way to handle it, I know, but right now I don't know what to do. I don't know which one makes me more mad. difficult child 1 for abusing him or difficult child 2 for starting it. He will go out of his way to antagonize her. He will jump on her or hug her really hard when she is doing something quiet like drawing or watching TV. Every time there's even a few minutes of peace and quiet difficult child 2 goes and ruins it. If he is not bothering his sister, he is jumping on the bed, slamming into walls, or grabbing the cat and bothering him. difficult child 2 rarely hits me but when she does I simply yell at her to stop. I have tried taking away her cell phone but she is bigger and stronger than me and she will grab it out of my hands and run or she will push me or grab my arm really hard. At this point I don't know what to do. Ex is no help. I have brought up these behaviors in the past and all he does is blame me and tell me I am not a good parent. He has threatened to take away the kids in the past and use my mental instability and recent hospital stays against me. I feel like I'm at a such a loss.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Californiablonde, post: 518742, member: 2196"] Thanks Midwest Mom. To answer your question, I generally feel safe around my kids. When difficult child 1 smothered difficult child 2 it was basically for a few second before she let him go. Still not the best way to handle it, I know, but right now I don't know what to do. I don't know which one makes me more mad. difficult child 1 for abusing him or difficult child 2 for starting it. He will go out of his way to antagonize her. He will jump on her or hug her really hard when she is doing something quiet like drawing or watching TV. Every time there's even a few minutes of peace and quiet difficult child 2 goes and ruins it. If he is not bothering his sister, he is jumping on the bed, slamming into walls, or grabbing the cat and bothering him. difficult child 2 rarely hits me but when she does I simply yell at her to stop. I have tried taking away her cell phone but she is bigger and stronger than me and she will grab it out of my hands and run or she will push me or grab my arm really hard. At this point I don't know what to do. Ex is no help. I have brought up these behaviors in the past and all he does is blame me and tell me I am not a good parent. He has threatened to take away the kids in the past and use my mental instability and recent hospital stays against me. I feel like I'm at a such a loss. [/QUOTE]
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