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Please explain the 'illness' in all this behaviour....again!!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 491657" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>You know these things are symptoms, I do too, but yes, it does just hit that base part in us that does not want to be around someone who says rude sounding remarks, burps, farts, spits, and says such provocative things like what your difficult child says to his brother. Mine says stuff like that too...just sitting at the computer or whatever. Will ask for something nicely and then the end of the remark is ugly. Mom, can you please make me some waffles? Or else I will have to beat the sh1t out of you. Just kidding mom--I dont mean it......dumb <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />, I wont say mean things ok B1+ch. I will never say it again ok... then laughs. He has always laughed if someone falls or bumps themselves. but will say Is she ok mom? his affect never matches the situation. I have read a lot about how people with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and especially some kinds of brain injuries have that symptom but it really makes them seem so mean. </p><p></p><p>It is how they are wired, that is so true. They just dont know what to say when they are feeling uncomfortable, or wanting to interact or whatever. He may have needed more space than his brother was giving him, but didn't even recognize that was the problem. My son can't handle people by him much of the time. Standing in lines, watching him play a computer game or watching tv. When Q wants to interact, but is used to rejection anyway, he will just do whatever to engage people and then if they dont interact to his satisfaction, he will say whatever...it keeps them there and talking doesn't it??? It gets just too tiring some days.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 491657, member: 12886"] You know these things are symptoms, I do too, but yes, it does just hit that base part in us that does not want to be around someone who says rude sounding remarks, burps, farts, spits, and says such provocative things like what your difficult child says to his brother. Mine says stuff like that too...just sitting at the computer or whatever. Will ask for something nicely and then the end of the remark is ugly. Mom, can you please make me some waffles? Or else I will have to beat the sh1t out of you. Just kidding mom--I dont mean it......dumb :censored2:, I wont say mean things ok B1+ch. I will never say it again ok... then laughs. He has always laughed if someone falls or bumps themselves. but will say Is she ok mom? his affect never matches the situation. I have read a lot about how people with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and especially some kinds of brain injuries have that symptom but it really makes them seem so mean. It is how they are wired, that is so true. They just dont know what to say when they are feeling uncomfortable, or wanting to interact or whatever. He may have needed more space than his brother was giving him, but didn't even recognize that was the problem. My son can't handle people by him much of the time. Standing in lines, watching him play a computer game or watching tv. When Q wants to interact, but is used to rejection anyway, he will just do whatever to engage people and then if they dont interact to his satisfaction, he will say whatever...it keeps them there and talking doesn't it??? It gets just too tiring some days. [/QUOTE]
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