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Please help - 28 yr old son destroying things in house
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 714446" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Bertie</p><p></p><p>Sorry that you had to come back. Sounds like you are not living a good life by having your son there with you.</p><p></p><p>More will be along but if he will not do anything to help himself then you know you are enabling him by letting him live there.</p><p></p><p>I think sometimes our Difficult Child take joy in torturing us or it seems so.</p><p></p><p>Many don't understand what you/we go through BUT that does not mean that it's okay for you to let this go on.</p><p></p><p>My Difficult Child has not been diagnosed with bipolar but others have had experience with this so I will leave it up to them.</p><p></p><p>Please, please get some help and support for yourself. You deserve to be happy.</p><p></p><p>He does not want to change so you have to change how you handle this situation.</p><p></p><p>I've have had police cars and ambulances at my house. Who cares. You can't let that paralyze you into living like this. People forget and no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Most will have empathy for you if they're decent human beings.</p><p></p><p>I just wanted you to know that we're here for you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 714446, member: 15032"] Bertie Sorry that you had to come back. Sounds like you are not living a good life by having your son there with you. More will be along but if he will not do anything to help himself then you know you are enabling him by letting him live there. I think sometimes our Difficult Child take joy in torturing us or it seems so. Many don't understand what you/we go through BUT that does not mean that it's okay for you to let this go on. My Difficult Child has not been diagnosed with bipolar but others have had experience with this so I will leave it up to them. Please, please get some help and support for yourself. You deserve to be happy. He does not want to change so you have to change how you handle this situation. I've have had police cars and ambulances at my house. Who cares. You can't let that paralyze you into living like this. People forget and no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Most will have empathy for you if they're decent human beings. I just wanted you to know that we're here for you! [/QUOTE]
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