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Please help - I just found her meth pipe!
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 405315"><p>It is so hard. i think while they are in the midst of drug use they really can't see all that we do for them, or the pain and heartache they are causing us. They often are angry that we won't "help" them, even though that help just enables them to continue their destructive ways. I still don't think my son gets how much he has put us through, he doesn't really get why all of his actions have affected us. It is his life after all so why does it matter so much to us? I think he does see how some of the stuff he has done to his sister has affected her, but not to us. I hope someday he gets that.</p><p></p><p>I think it can help to let the court system be the heavy..... so it is no longer you requiring good behavior but the system.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there and continue to stand your ground. You are doing a good job and remember you didn't cause this, you can't cure it and you can't control it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 405315"] It is so hard. i think while they are in the midst of drug use they really can't see all that we do for them, or the pain and heartache they are causing us. They often are angry that we won't "help" them, even though that help just enables them to continue their destructive ways. I still don't think my son gets how much he has put us through, he doesn't really get why all of his actions have affected us. It is his life after all so why does it matter so much to us? I think he does see how some of the stuff he has done to his sister has affected her, but not to us. I hope someday he gets that. I think it can help to let the court system be the heavy..... so it is no longer you requiring good behavior but the system. Hang in there and continue to stand your ground. You are doing a good job and remember you didn't cause this, you can't cure it and you can't control it. [/QUOTE]
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