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<blockquote data-quote="Kalahou" data-source="post: 682387" data-attributes="member: 19617"><p>Hello ChangesWays7,</p><p></p><p>I don’t have much time at the moment but just wanted to acknowledge your post and welcome you to this forum. I am glad you found us here. It is a safe place to come to. We understand and you are not alone.</p><p></p><p>My son is also 36 and has been in jail the last 2 months awaiting trial. He asked to be bailed out and he asked us to supervise release. I did neither. I have not seen him and have had very little phone contact with him.</p><p></p><p>You have expressed my feelings exactly. There are many here who will tell you they felt and feel the same way.</p><p></p><p>I’m glad you realize your need to detach and take care of yourself. Read the Detachment article at the top of this forum. It really helps to understand enabling and detachment. Reading the article several times to really get it helps a lot. Here’s the link. <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz43UtHW4Gi" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz43UtHW4Gi</a></p><p></p><p>More folks will be along soon to give you wise insight and guidance.</p><p></p><p>By the way, this is a very old thread that you posted on. I suggest you start your own new thread on this site, so more people will reply. Go to the <u>Parents Emeritus</u> home page, and click the blue button at the top right, up by your name. The button says “<em><span style="color: #000000">Post New Thread.</span></em>” There’s also a button at the bottom of the page. You can just copy (cut and paste) your prior post to the new thread. That way it will be your own thread and folks will respond to your situation.</p><p></p><p>Take care and stay with us. It helps to keep visiting here and reading the other threads here.</p><p></p><p>Glad you found us here. Kalahou.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kalahou, post: 682387, member: 19617"] Hello ChangesWays7, I don’t have much time at the moment but just wanted to acknowledge your post and welcome you to this forum. I am glad you found us here. It is a safe place to come to. We understand and you are not alone. My son is also 36 and has been in jail the last 2 months awaiting trial. He asked to be bailed out and he asked us to supervise release. I did neither. I have not seen him and have had very little phone contact with him. You have expressed my feelings exactly. There are many here who will tell you they felt and feel the same way. I’m glad you realize your need to detach and take care of yourself. Read the Detachment article at the top of this forum. It really helps to understand enabling and detachment. Reading the article several times to really get it helps a lot. Here’s the link. [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz43UtHW4Gi[/URL] More folks will be along soon to give you wise insight and guidance. By the way, this is a very old thread that you posted on. I suggest you start your own new thread on this site, so more people will reply. Go to the [U]Parents Emeritus[/U] home page, and click the blue button at the top right, up by your name. The button says “[I][COLOR=#000000]Post New Thread.[/COLOR][/I]” There’s also a button at the bottom of the page. You can just copy (cut and paste) your prior post to the new thread. That way it will be your own thread and folks will respond to your situation. Take care and stay with us. It helps to keep visiting here and reading the other threads here. Glad you found us here. Kalahou. [/QUOTE]
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