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Please help with our decision to bail 35 yr old son out of jail..
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 682390" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Welcome. </p><p></p><p>I second K's advice to start a new thread. I can't sleep but others except the Hawaii people are off to bed. If you post a new thread you will begin to get responses about 4:00 Pacific Time or so, when the people back East get up and moving.</p><p></p><p>I understand everything you are saying about what your adult child is trying to involve you in. This revolving door without change. While he is being selfish and irresponsible, I can understand how he feels. In jail/prison he is likely sober and of course he wants out.</p><p></p><p>But the thing is you are not helping him if you help him avoid the consequences of his own choices and lifestyle.</p><p></p><p>And of course there is the absolute necessity to take care of you. He is not a child any longer. And you like the rest of us, not a spring chicken. It should not work this way: your resources, your tranquility and peace of mind sacrificed for him. </p><p></p><p>Enough.</p><p></p><p>It does not help him.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you found us. Start a thread. Post a lot. It helps.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 682390, member: 18958"] Welcome. I second K's advice to start a new thread. I can't sleep but others except the Hawaii people are off to bed. If you post a new thread you will begin to get responses about 4:00 Pacific Time or so, when the people back East get up and moving. I understand everything you are saying about what your adult child is trying to involve you in. This revolving door without change. While he is being selfish and irresponsible, I can understand how he feels. In jail/prison he is likely sober and of course he wants out. But the thing is you are not helping him if you help him avoid the consequences of his own choices and lifestyle. And of course there is the absolute necessity to take care of you. He is not a child any longer. And you like the rest of us, not a spring chicken. It should not work this way: your resources, your tranquility and peace of mind sacrificed for him. Enough. It does not help him. I am glad you found us. Start a thread. Post a lot. It helps. COPA [/QUOTE]
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