difficult child 1 is still overseas tho due to return home soon. I have been concerned about him for a while. I can't say what he's seen; only that he's seen and done plenty while he's been involved in this war. He is very depressed. He is afraid to come home. When he gets here, he doesn't want to spend time with his wife and son. He doesn't want to handle being responsible for day to day 'stuff'... He is really reminding me of when he was at his worst when he was 15/16. I am worried for him and his wife and little boy. If you can spare a prayer for him, and for a little strength and wisdom for his wife, and maybe even me, as we head down this path with him.