Oh Thank you guy's. She is still doing horribly. She is very elevated and looking for her friends again. She just attacked me because we were trying to discuss what we could watch together on TV, she didn't like the options and jumped on me and started hitting me. husband had to pull her off of me, he has her in the other room restraining her right now. I have the puppy and N in another room. NO there will be no break for me for awhile... husband leaves on Monday for a week.
We had everything in place... I actually felt pretty good going into yesterday, despite the phone call and all the family drama.
We has the kids "safe" place set up, the guest room set up that has the rocking chair with our music player and soft blankets. We moved a TV in for the girls with some movies and toys even TV trays. N has croup also...
They played outside, helped with food, rested, very calm. We let them do what they wanted to avoid anxiety... No-one showed up until 1.
Only 3 people came over... they loved the kids.
But K just kept getting more and more elevated and manic... hiding, getting scared. We were all talking in the family room K was hiding behind me, she started talking about her dead brother, Tutu. he is 26. She was very specific with details and she started sobbing this went on the rest of the night. Her losing control of reality. She went into the guest room and stayed, just screaming for her brother for hours. Meanwhile I was trying to finish cooking...
husband and I took turns rocking her and talking to her, doing exactly what you said Linda, we use the music, but it didn't touch her last night.
We gave her 2 PRN's and she finally passed out after hours of hallucinating and screaming at the top of her lungs... needless to say it was a very interesting Thanksgiving for our guests, but they were very understanding.
The meal actually was great!!! It took me all day to get it done... I am very tired. Drained. I was actually glad we had friends here.
I just don't know what to do for her, or what the next step is.
Hardly any of the books ever talk about kids this young...
She just came back in the room and calmly told me she is running away.
I believe we need a miracle.