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Plz help with consequences asap! Rap boy
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 203547" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Basically, it's your house with your rules. That means NO SEX in your home. Period. If you haven't laid that rule down previously, I'd give him another chance. If the rule had been explicitly spelled out, then I'd make sure he had no chance to be home alone, even if that meant changing the locks so he couldn't get in when you weren't home.</p><p> </p><p>Yes, he's going to have sex. Like everything else for older teens, you can't stop it once they decide they want to do it whether it is sex, drugs or rock and roll. What you can try to stop is his disrespecting your home and property, even if that means the inconvenience of his not having a car. </p><p> </p><p>I would be sure he knows the price he could pay both physically and financially. </p><p> </p><p>I would also be contacting the parents of any girl that I know he is having sex with. I think the parents of most girls would want to know this. Besides, that may put a stop to some of his behavior -- nothing like a girl getting in trouble at home to spread the word that he's bad news because he has parents that care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 203547, member: 3626"] Basically, it's your house with your rules. That means NO SEX in your home. Period. If you haven't laid that rule down previously, I'd give him another chance. If the rule had been explicitly spelled out, then I'd make sure he had no chance to be home alone, even if that meant changing the locks so he couldn't get in when you weren't home. Yes, he's going to have sex. Like everything else for older teens, you can't stop it once they decide they want to do it whether it is sex, drugs or rock and roll. What you can try to stop is his disrespecting your home and property, even if that means the inconvenience of his not having a car. I would be sure he knows the price he could pay both physically and financially. I would also be contacting the parents of any girl that I know he is having sex with. I think the parents of most girls would want to know this. Besides, that may put a stop to some of his behavior -- nothing like a girl getting in trouble at home to spread the word that he's bad news because he has parents that care. [/QUOTE]
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