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Plz help with consequences asap! Rap boy
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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 203623" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>I agree with Beth, you lay down the rules and then you walk away. You will not allow him having sex in your home. If he breaks the rule, the privilages are gone - meaning phone and car - period. You know he will have sex if he wants to, but you can keep it out of your house. Finding porno is something mothers and fathers have been finding for years! You have the right to not allow it in your home though.</p><p> </p><p>One thing you said that perhaps need clarification - you said that if he had sex, drugs or alcohol in the car it was gone. I would clarify that with him. First, I don't think you can really dictate the sex in his car - I'm just being real here. Second, the drug and alcohol use should not be tied just to the car. Basically drugs are illegal and he is underage for drinking. If you find he has been doing either, in or out of his car, you should take the car. You can get a drug test kit (or a supply of them) to use weekly if you suspect he is lying. Let him know the rules up front.</p><p> </p><p>He's almost legal. You have very little time to show him how bad choices can screw up his life. Keep him on a tight leash so that you can clearly see the infractions and set the consequence. Perhaps it will make a difference.</p><p> </p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 203623, member: 805"] I agree with Beth, you lay down the rules and then you walk away. You will not allow him having sex in your home. If he breaks the rule, the privilages are gone - meaning phone and car - period. You know he will have sex if he wants to, but you can keep it out of your house. Finding porno is something mothers and fathers have been finding for years! You have the right to not allow it in your home though. One thing you said that perhaps need clarification - you said that if he had sex, drugs or alcohol in the car it was gone. I would clarify that with him. First, I don't think you can really dictate the sex in his car - I'm just being real here. Second, the drug and alcohol use should not be tied just to the car. Basically drugs are illegal and he is underage for drinking. If you find he has been doing either, in or out of his car, you should take the car. You can get a drug test kit (or a supply of them) to use weekly if you suspect he is lying. Let him know the rules up front. He's almost legal. You have very little time to show him how bad choices can screw up his life. Keep him on a tight leash so that you can clearly see the infractions and set the consequence. Perhaps it will make a difference. Sharon [/QUOTE]
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