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I've become less tolerant. I started taking estrogen patches a few months ago due to my early menopause. I also found out I have ostepenia ugh. So I started getting cycles again and all that goes with it. It's funny because I've not had this in a couple of years and now I can step back and observe this from a different perspective and identify it for what it is. I've gotten back the feeling of depression, sensitivity and dissatisfaction I used to get on a regular basis.
So poor husband is the recipient of my irriability. Before I was like "oh well, he's a slob I guess I'll just have to pick up the slack and clean u pafter him. Now I'm all worked up and cleaning with attitude. For those about to marry, I rank compatibility with messy/clean up there with financial. If you love a slob, be prepared for him to NOT change and know you will have a thankless lifetime job of cleaning up after him. And if you breed messy kids too, my condolences.
He comes into the house and strews clothes, cigarettes, keys, paperwork, inahlers, glasses, cases, etc. ALL OVER. And when I start to tidy I get attitude, like how dare I mess with his stuff. I told him today when I received such attitude that there were two rooms I have detached from in this house that I leave alone and if he would like, I could do the same to the rest of the house. These two rooms are so bad that he is even embarassed if people go in them; they are closed and no one ever goes in there. One of them is his bathroom and I will spare you the ugly details.
How do you resove these difference. I have a need for a clean and orderly home and he clearly does not. Is there an answer? Should I increase my ad's? lol
I guess this is partly just a vent but if anyone has suggestions I'm sure listening.
ML
So poor husband is the recipient of my irriability. Before I was like "oh well, he's a slob I guess I'll just have to pick up the slack and clean u pafter him. Now I'm all worked up and cleaning with attitude. For those about to marry, I rank compatibility with messy/clean up there with financial. If you love a slob, be prepared for him to NOT change and know you will have a thankless lifetime job of cleaning up after him. And if you breed messy kids too, my condolences.
He comes into the house and strews clothes, cigarettes, keys, paperwork, inahlers, glasses, cases, etc. ALL OVER. And when I start to tidy I get attitude, like how dare I mess with his stuff. I told him today when I received such attitude that there were two rooms I have detached from in this house that I leave alone and if he would like, I could do the same to the rest of the house. These two rooms are so bad that he is even embarassed if people go in them; they are closed and no one ever goes in there. One of them is his bathroom and I will spare you the ugly details.
How do you resove these difference. I have a need for a clean and orderly home and he clearly does not. Is there an answer? Should I increase my ad's? lol
I guess this is partly just a vent but if anyone has suggestions I'm sure listening.
ML