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<blockquote data-quote="jal" data-source="post: 195290" data-attributes="member: 3477"><p>Jules 71- I really do sympathize because everything you wrote there is everything that has been going on in our home for years. Unfortunately, my difficult child can't even control it at school. He has been through 4 daycares and I lost a job of 9.5 years because of him. His behavior was this way anywhere he went and at anytime. So I can understand your frustration of why can difficult child do it there and not in his own home? A lot of times difficult child's with a mood component can hold it together at school and then unleash when they get home. I know my difficult child would hold it together for daycare (not always) but as soon as he got in the car he would verbally vomit all over me and then scream and fuss and yell. </p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, I don't have an answer for you as I am still searching for my own, but I know that the number of books I've read, the strategies didn't help, the out of pocket in home behaviorist, didn't help, nothing has worked until this new medication and psychiatric hospital stay. We have gotten him to a point where maybe 1 meltdown a day if that happens and he's much easier to handle when told No, he is not throwing things, kicking the walls, etc. Now I can talk to him and employ all of the strategies I have learned and been taught. I had to get him to a place where he was calm and open to begin working with him rather than him being so wound he couldn't hear me at all. He had no control over himself at all. Everyone luckily could see that, the doctors, the school, daycare...but we have finally found some peace in our home. Best of luck to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jal, post: 195290, member: 3477"] Jules 71- I really do sympathize because everything you wrote there is everything that has been going on in our home for years. Unfortunately, my difficult child can't even control it at school. He has been through 4 daycares and I lost a job of 9.5 years because of him. His behavior was this way anywhere he went and at anytime. So I can understand your frustration of why can difficult child do it there and not in his own home? A lot of times difficult child's with a mood component can hold it together at school and then unleash when they get home. I know my difficult child would hold it together for daycare (not always) but as soon as he got in the car he would verbally vomit all over me and then scream and fuss and yell. Unfortunately, I don't have an answer for you as I am still searching for my own, but I know that the number of books I've read, the strategies didn't help, the out of pocket in home behaviorist, didn't help, nothing has worked until this new medication and psychiatric hospital stay. We have gotten him to a point where maybe 1 meltdown a day if that happens and he's much easier to handle when told No, he is not throwing things, kicking the walls, etc. Now I can talk to him and employ all of the strategies I have learned and been taught. I had to get him to a place where he was calm and open to begin working with him rather than him being so wound he couldn't hear me at all. He had no control over himself at all. Everyone luckily could see that, the doctors, the school, daycare...but we have finally found some peace in our home. Best of luck to you. [/QUOTE]
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