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<blockquote data-quote="Stella Johnson" data-source="post: 450501" data-attributes="member: 9"><p>LMS isn't hesitant about going to see difficult child in jail because she wants to punish him. It isn't that at all. She had a complete psychotic break the last time this happened with her other difficult child. It hurts her too much. LMS is finally stable mentally and putting herself in that situation again would most likely undo all of the work she has done. I don't at all agree that LMS needs to visit him. </p><p></p><p>Her difficult child knows he is loved. Other family members, her husband, daughter in law, other family members have and are visiting him. She has told him many times she could not visit him if he ended up there again. It wasn't a threat. It is self preservation. She isn't punishing him. She does not need to risk being locked up in a mental ward because her son chose to get into trouble again.... not to mention it is for hurting his own child while he was drunk. </p><p></p><p>I don't want LMS to feel she needs to go see him. It will hurt her way more than it could ever "help" difficult child for her to go there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Stella Johnson, post: 450501, member: 9"] LMS isn't hesitant about going to see difficult child in jail because she wants to punish him. It isn't that at all. She had a complete psychotic break the last time this happened with her other difficult child. It hurts her too much. LMS is finally stable mentally and putting herself in that situation again would most likely undo all of the work she has done. I don't at all agree that LMS needs to visit him. Her difficult child knows he is loved. Other family members, her husband, daughter in law, other family members have and are visiting him. She has told him many times she could not visit him if he ended up there again. It wasn't a threat. It is self preservation. She isn't punishing him. She does not need to risk being locked up in a mental ward because her son chose to get into trouble again.... not to mention it is for hurting his own child while he was drunk. I don't want LMS to feel she needs to go see him. It will hurt her way more than it could ever "help" difficult child for her to go there. [/QUOTE]
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