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<blockquote data-quote="'Chelle" data-source="post: 131901" data-attributes="member: 1161"><p>Just wondering if the $400 per week is your husband's "pocket money" to do whatever he wants with - you know, buy lunch, buy a book, have a drink with the guys - or is it supposed to be earmarked for bills, gas etc. Honestly, I too would be wondering what my husband spent $280.00 on in a week. Not that my husband couldn't spend that on himself if he had it, but I'd generally see the fruits of his spending, like dvds or airplane models or computer stuff or car parts for the car he's trying to rebuild. That's one thing about my husband and difficult child, they tell me everything - good or bad LOL.</p><p></p><p>Has your husband had any unexplained absences lately, or working late a lot, or a sudden joining of a club or sport that he's never done before? Just wondering, because unexplained spending and absences, paired with jealous accusations equalled my sis's ex having affairs on the side. Guilty conscience can lead to that person accusing their spouse of doing exactly what they're doing in secret. Just the only suspicion I got from that. Him asking you to check his account probably negates that suspicion tho, I'd think, since he wouldn't want you to know he'd been spending. It could be your husband was just in a hurry and felt you were questioning him like a kid, or he decided to eat some expensive meals and doesn't want to tell 'cause he didn't share, or bought himself some expensive thing he just doesn't want to tell you about yet because maybe there are other things he should have paid for first. Could be lots of reasons.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="'Chelle, post: 131901, member: 1161"] Just wondering if the $400 per week is your husband's "pocket money" to do whatever he wants with - you know, buy lunch, buy a book, have a drink with the guys - or is it supposed to be earmarked for bills, gas etc. Honestly, I too would be wondering what my husband spent $280.00 on in a week. Not that my husband couldn't spend that on himself if he had it, but I'd generally see the fruits of his spending, like dvds or airplane models or computer stuff or car parts for the car he's trying to rebuild. That's one thing about my husband and difficult child, they tell me everything - good or bad LOL. Has your husband had any unexplained absences lately, or working late a lot, or a sudden joining of a club or sport that he's never done before? Just wondering, because unexplained spending and absences, paired with jealous accusations equalled my sis's ex having affairs on the side. Guilty conscience can lead to that person accusing their spouse of doing exactly what they're doing in secret. Just the only suspicion I got from that. Him asking you to check his account probably negates that suspicion tho, I'd think, since he wouldn't want you to know he'd been spending. It could be your husband was just in a hurry and felt you were questioning him like a kid, or he decided to eat some expensive meals and doesn't want to tell 'cause he didn't share, or bought himself some expensive thing he just doesn't want to tell you about yet because maybe there are other things he should have paid for first. Could be lots of reasons. [/QUOTE]
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