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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 501144" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Yes, buddy for President!</p><p>I am sure that not accommodating is a good idea <em>in theory</em> but in practice? V and J are not dealing with exactly the same issues but both of them seem to be filled with anxiety. The only time I have noticed J really letting go of his need to have things done according to plan, etc, is when he is feeling more confident and happier in himself. And that is obviously not something one can force. </p><p>Changes, if they come, have to be really small... bit by tiny bit. Otherwise, as has been said, it all feels overwhelming to the child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 501144, member: 11227"] Yes, buddy for President! I am sure that not accommodating is a good idea [I]in theory[/I] but in practice? V and J are not dealing with exactly the same issues but both of them seem to be filled with anxiety. The only time I have noticed J really letting go of his need to have things done according to plan, etc, is when he is feeling more confident and happier in himself. And that is obviously not something one can force. Changes, if they come, have to be really small... bit by tiny bit. Otherwise, as has been said, it all feels overwhelming to the child. [/QUOTE]
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