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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 427178" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>For a typicl child, reasoning and discussing may work. The benefit of the doubt was finished in kindergarden...like in September of kindergarden. Parenting a child with ODD required me to be very firm and very strict, that was the only way he would learn anything and honestly, that didn't even work. Even if the child has no ill will or malice toward anyone or anything, they still need to be TAUGHT the right way and natural consequences were the only thing that worked ( for me) better than anything else. These kids can't go out in the real world thinking," I have a problem, I can get away with anything....my dad even says I'm special". There are so many atypical ways of teaching our kids how can anyone say,..."Here is the answer."? You have to judge, because the world will judge, you have to teach him the right way. The child has a "struggle"? Help difficult child the best way you can, by not accepting what he's doing, correct it. Correct it a million times until he learns, they learn quick when you don't accept or enable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 427178, member: 2668"] For a typicl child, reasoning and discussing may work. The benefit of the doubt was finished in kindergarden...like in September of kindergarden. Parenting a child with ODD required me to be very firm and very strict, that was the only way he would learn anything and honestly, that didn't even work. Even if the child has no ill will or malice toward anyone or anything, they still need to be TAUGHT the right way and natural consequences were the only thing that worked ( for me) better than anything else. These kids can't go out in the real world thinking," I have a problem, I can get away with anything....my dad even says I'm special". There are so many atypical ways of teaching our kids how can anyone say,..."Here is the answer."? You have to judge, because the world will judge, you have to teach him the right way. The child has a "struggle"? Help difficult child the best way you can, by not accepting what he's doing, correct it. Correct it a million times until he learns, they learn quick when you don't accept or enable. [/QUOTE]
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