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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 427219" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>I lost my post , so in a sentence - children do well if they can - the collaborative problem solving mantra enables one to start the problem solving process . children or people do well if they want to puts one into the confrontational one - you have to make them wanna to act ...... or as Byron Katie puts it - don't fight reality , if you accept reality , you will be in a better position to connect to the other and work with them for change . Thoughts like - he shouldn't , he mustn't , he should are all negative </p><p></p><p>if you do an intellectual trick and say - he should do .... what he is doing ( not that he should ) - we will ask why ? and then try to help the kid come up with a better plan knowing the underlying reasons.</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 427219, member: 10"] Hi, I lost my post , so in a sentence - children do well if they can - the collaborative problem solving mantra enables one to start the problem solving process . children or people do well if they want to puts one into the confrontational one - you have to make them wanna to act ...... or as Byron Katie puts it - don't fight reality , if you accept reality , you will be in a better position to connect to the other and work with them for change . Thoughts like - he shouldn't , he mustn't , he should are all negative if you do an intellectual trick and say - he should do .... what he is doing ( not that he should ) - we will ask why ? and then try to help the kid come up with a better plan knowing the underlying reasons. Allan [/QUOTE]
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