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<blockquote data-quote="Vicky age 37" data-source="post: 622597" data-attributes="member: 17779"><p>I'm not sure if he had a chaotic life as an infant. His mum and my now husband fell pregnant within 3 months, and split by his first birthday, she was also pregnant with baby number 2 by then. It was all such a mess really. I met him when the second child turned one, and met them 6 months after that. They had both had other partners in the meantime, but don't think kids ever met them. Due to her refusal to let him have access, he had supervised access with them for a few months, of which I also attended, and they did not start staying over with us for another year or so, after plenty of day visits etc. (We live in different cities so fortnightly access is in place) we have now been together 10 years and they have seen him in nothing but a stable relationship since then. The same cannot be Sensory Integration Disorder (SID) of the mother who has had quite a few relationships, with 3 moving in over the past decade. I agree not all blame can be laid on her, although so many of his personality traits do mirror his mothers. I know it is difficult for me not to be biased, but I am an objective realistic person and have tried on many occasion to build a relationship with the mother to no avail. I feel my hands are tied with regards to getting him help as his mother sees no problem, and my husband I know finds the prospect devastating even though he knows there is an issue.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Vicky age 37, post: 622597, member: 17779"] I'm not sure if he had a chaotic life as an infant. His mum and my now husband fell pregnant within 3 months, and split by his first birthday, she was also pregnant with baby number 2 by then. It was all such a mess really. I met him when the second child turned one, and met them 6 months after that. They had both had other partners in the meantime, but don't think kids ever met them. Due to her refusal to let him have access, he had supervised access with them for a few months, of which I also attended, and they did not start staying over with us for another year or so, after plenty of day visits etc. (We live in different cities so fortnightly access is in place) we have now been together 10 years and they have seen him in nothing but a stable relationship since then. The same cannot be Sensory Integration Disorder (SID) of the mother who has had quite a few relationships, with 3 moving in over the past decade. I agree not all blame can be laid on her, although so many of his personality traits do mirror his mothers. I know it is difficult for me not to be biased, but I am an objective realistic person and have tried on many occasion to build a relationship with the mother to no avail. I feel my hands are tied with regards to getting him help as his mother sees no problem, and my husband I know finds the prospect devastating even though he knows there is an issue. [/QUOTE]
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