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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 331544" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Maybe all you need to do is say. "Stop!" and then give him some alternative words to say. He sounds like he's needing to express frustration - so get him to say, after you, "I am so angry! I am so frustrated!" and then show him that you WILL respond to this to try to help him around what is making him angry or frustrated.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes it takes coaching and rehearsal of some surprising things.</p><p></p><p>As for him feeling more relaxed and letting you have it the worst - that's a common finding, the kids try to hold it together when they know they have to, so they tend to behave worst with the people who they know love them unconditionally.</p><p></p><p>As for the teacher not following all the things you agreed on - I'm not the least bit surprised. It was always a common reason for us, for the failure of difficult child 3's various learning plans or behaviour plans.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 331544, member: 1991"] Maybe all you need to do is say. "Stop!" and then give him some alternative words to say. He sounds like he's needing to express frustration - so get him to say, after you, "I am so angry! I am so frustrated!" and then show him that you WILL respond to this to try to help him around what is making him angry or frustrated. Sometimes it takes coaching and rehearsal of some surprising things. As for him feeling more relaxed and letting you have it the worst - that's a common finding, the kids try to hold it together when they know they have to, so they tend to behave worst with the people who they know love them unconditionally. As for the teacher not following all the things you agreed on - I'm not the least bit surprised. It was always a common reason for us, for the failure of difficult child 3's various learning plans or behaviour plans. Marg [/QUOTE]
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