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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 677197" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Copa, you are right. I have tried to talk with hubs, it is falling on deaf ears. He is not ready, to see it for what it is. I will keep talking with him, to try to find a better solution. </p><p>It is hard, he is very stubborn and set in his ways. More so, since his heart surgery and illnesses. It is an uphill battle.</p><p> I do not want to be a martyr.</p><p> He has an entirely different perspective. What am I to do? It is the same for many who post here, different places along the journey. </p><p>I cannot control how he feels, or what he does. Only myself. </p><p>Everything you wrote is true, and this is the more difficult aspect of how addiction affects the family. </p><p><em>I know Rain is triangulating.</em></p><p>He does not see it.</p><p></p><p> Does anyone else experience this with their partners? </p><p></p><p>Thank you Copa, I appreciate your honesty. It is true what you wrote.</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 677197, member: 19522"] Copa, you are right. I have tried to talk with hubs, it is falling on deaf ears. He is not ready, to see it for what it is. I will keep talking with him, to try to find a better solution. It is hard, he is very stubborn and set in his ways. More so, since his heart surgery and illnesses. It is an uphill battle. I do not want to be a martyr. He has an entirely different perspective. What am I to do? It is the same for many who post here, different places along the journey. I cannot control how he feels, or what he does. Only myself. Everything you wrote is true, and this is the more difficult aspect of how addiction affects the family. [I]I know Rain is triangulating.[/I] He does not see it. [I][/I] Does anyone else experience this with their partners? Thank you Copa, I appreciate your honesty. It is true what you wrote. leafy [/QUOTE]
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