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Praying for that day......
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 677208" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>I was always the bad guy in our family as well. I made the rules and half the time my do forgot them.....over time though with my sons behavior my do did get on the same page as me and is supportive. It is interesting now though that the kids are older. If my son needs help he calls me... And my daughter who is pure easy child also comes to me if she has something going on. </p><p></p><p>But when times have been bad with my son his venom and anger is all directed at me as well.</p><p></p><p>So if your daughter ever gets sober things may change, but while she is using you are in her way because you set the limits and boundaries which makes it harder for her to use.</p><p></p><p>And yes you can't change how your hub feels or reacts... All you can do is keep setting boundaries for yourself and what you will deal with. You absolutely have the right to be safe in your own home and that needs to be made clear to hubs.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 677208, member: 15801"] I was always the bad guy in our family as well. I made the rules and half the time my do forgot them.....over time though with my sons behavior my do did get on the same page as me and is supportive. It is interesting now though that the kids are older. If my son needs help he calls me... And my daughter who is pure easy child also comes to me if she has something going on. But when times have been bad with my son his venom and anger is all directed at me as well. So if your daughter ever gets sober things may change, but while she is using you are in her way because you set the limits and boundaries which makes it harder for her to use. And yes you can't change how your hub feels or reacts... All you can do is keep setting boundaries for yourself and what you will deal with. You absolutely have the right to be safe in your own home and that needs to be made clear to hubs. Hugs, TL [/QUOTE]
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