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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 677261" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>I have seen that my hubs has come a bit further. At least he agrees that our two will <em>not live here again</em>. So, there is some progress.</p><p></p><p> This reaffirms what I do know. I am in the way. Thank you TL. I am also aware, that our relationship may not improve<em> even if she does get sober</em>. All I can do is live my life the best I can. I am so appreciative of all the insight offered here. It has helped me sort through the reality and pain of this.</p><p></p><p> I have spoken with hubs and he will talk with Rain. We do not see her as much as before.</p><p>This in of itself has repercussions. Just wondering how she is doing, praying she is okay. <em>The work it takes to stay focused and grounded</em>, while someone you love is going off the rails. While I try my best not to worry, because worry does nothing but bring me down, that <em>thought is there</em>. That ache.</p><p>Then, she is the picture, and everything just kind of starts racing, is she okay? What is her demeanor? What does she want? </p><p>All of these mixed emotions, tangled up with the history of interaction, what I have had to learn to be able to cope and not get drawn into the chaos of it.</p><p></p><p>All of us warrior parents have so many different issues tacked on to our d cs. I guess what it boils down to is just....... life. There are folks out there who have other problems, children with disabilities, health issues, financial, etc. This is what we have to deal with and learn how to live as best we can despite these challenges we face.</p><p></p><p>Thank so much TL, and all, for your thoughts, ideas, concern, best wishes and help, I really, really am grateful for your kindness.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 677261, member: 19522"] I have seen that my hubs has come a bit further. At least he agrees that our two will [I]not live here again[/I]. So, there is some progress. This reaffirms what I do know. I am in the way. Thank you TL. I am also aware, that our relationship may not improve[I] even if she does get sober[/I]. All I can do is live my life the best I can. I am so appreciative of all the insight offered here. It has helped me sort through the reality and pain of this. I have spoken with hubs and he will talk with Rain. We do not see her as much as before. This in of itself has repercussions. Just wondering how she is doing, praying she is okay. [I]The work it takes to stay focused and grounded[/I], while someone you love is going off the rails. While I try my best not to worry, because worry does nothing but bring me down, that [I]thought is there[/I]. That ache. Then, she is the picture, and everything just kind of starts racing, is she okay? What is her demeanor? What does she want? All of these mixed emotions, tangled up with the history of interaction, what I have had to learn to be able to cope and not get drawn into the chaos of it. All of us warrior parents have so many different issues tacked on to our d cs. I guess what it boils down to is just....... life. There are folks out there who have other problems, children with disabilities, health issues, financial, etc. This is what we have to deal with and learn how to live as best we can despite these challenges we face. Thank so much TL, and all, for your thoughts, ideas, concern, best wishes and help, I really, really am grateful for your kindness. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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