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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 174862" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>I'm not clear if Medicaide is not paying becuz maybe they feel? they are not safe dureing preg? or not on a forumlary? Bummer is we also have another insurance that would cover all medications 100% IF we could get them by mail--but- it takes up to 5 weeks to get them by mail....and they cannot be faxed or phoned in, they MUST be mailed in. and of course, time is of essence and cannot wait and docs are only giving 2-3 days worth of each at a time....grrr.....so our primary insuance is paying a very small portion, penalizing us for not useing the by mail program....and Medicaide refuses to pay on them AT ALL. and the zofran is costly. </p><p></p><p>I do not know for sure just what those docs problem is.....you know on one hand, my mom was a very youung mother AAND an older mother, both.....and well, my lil brother had no parents young becuz of it. 18 yrs old, seems to me physically wise, is a healthy age.....and seems to me also, hey sometimes b'c fails. It is frustrting me how so many are judgeing easy child.and acting like the world is ending.....and people keep talking about her college as if she is never gonna go, now......well, I am not sure WHY they assume that, if it were not for this complication, she might have even taken summer classes, and she IS enrolled for fall.....why do people assume a baby means she cannot get a college education? I am here. boyfriend is here. BFs family is here. we are pitching in.....WE are not feeling particularly "put out" at all. WE are EXCITED. people can be ANY age and it can be a "bad" time to have a baby.people can be any age and not turn out to be great parents. easy child is flexible, resilient, and willing to learn......</p><p>yes, she is young. But I am more than willing to be here and do whatever.....to help. SO, yes, I have a problem if thats what the problem is at the docs office. Yeesh, LOL, the older "I" get, the less likely I will be as able to help as much......and even if she were older, well, that could bring it's own difficulties. If easy child were already married and they were living on their own already, and dependant on her job and income.....then what? what if they had moved away any distance? then what? I still have husband and difficult child and my son home to watch over, I could not simply uproot and GO to her to help.</p><p></p><p>I dunno, I just do not see this as the end of the world or anything, yes it will make life a little more complicated and a little harder for easy child, BUT....in reality, easy child will never realize what she had not yet not had, anyway. Not like she first lived some OTHER life to compare hers to? LOL. And good things are worth a little work? </p><p></p><p>LOL, I AM glad, tho, that it is NOT twins, after all. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> LOL. Altho if it was? we woulda made that work out, too, hey 2 for 1? LOL. </p><p>It is just this gosh darn illness, man it is just SO scarey!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 174862, member: 1697"] I'm not clear if Medicaide is not paying becuz maybe they feel? they are not safe dureing preg? or not on a forumlary? Bummer is we also have another insurance that would cover all medications 100% IF we could get them by mail--but- it takes up to 5 weeks to get them by mail....and they cannot be faxed or phoned in, they MUST be mailed in. and of course, time is of essence and cannot wait and docs are only giving 2-3 days worth of each at a time....grrr.....so our primary insuance is paying a very small portion, penalizing us for not useing the by mail program....and Medicaide refuses to pay on them AT ALL. and the zofran is costly. I do not know for sure just what those docs problem is.....you know on one hand, my mom was a very youung mother AAND an older mother, both.....and well, my lil brother had no parents young becuz of it. 18 yrs old, seems to me physically wise, is a healthy age.....and seems to me also, hey sometimes b'c fails. It is frustrting me how so many are judgeing easy child.and acting like the world is ending.....and people keep talking about her college as if she is never gonna go, now......well, I am not sure WHY they assume that, if it were not for this complication, she might have even taken summer classes, and she IS enrolled for fall.....why do people assume a baby means she cannot get a college education? I am here. boyfriend is here. BFs family is here. we are pitching in.....WE are not feeling particularly "put out" at all. WE are EXCITED. people can be ANY age and it can be a "bad" time to have a baby.people can be any age and not turn out to be great parents. easy child is flexible, resilient, and willing to learn...... yes, she is young. But I am more than willing to be here and do whatever.....to help. SO, yes, I have a problem if thats what the problem is at the docs office. Yeesh, LOL, the older "I" get, the less likely I will be as able to help as much......and even if she were older, well, that could bring it's own difficulties. If easy child were already married and they were living on their own already, and dependant on her job and income.....then what? what if they had moved away any distance? then what? I still have husband and difficult child and my son home to watch over, I could not simply uproot and GO to her to help. I dunno, I just do not see this as the end of the world or anything, yes it will make life a little more complicated and a little harder for easy child, BUT....in reality, easy child will never realize what she had not yet not had, anyway. Not like she first lived some OTHER life to compare hers to? LOL. And good things are worth a little work? LOL, I AM glad, tho, that it is NOT twins, after all. :-) LOL. Altho if it was? we woulda made that work out, too, hey 2 for 1? LOL. It is just this gosh darn illness, man it is just SO scarey! [/QUOTE]
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