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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 174877" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>daiseylover, THANK YOU and bless you for saying everything I keep saying...yes, easy child was one week past HS graduation when she found out...</p><p>and yes, I am faceing the same stuff, are her and boyfriend getting married? Well, um, why? they are not sure yet, and I told them to just WAIT till they figure life out a little more. He is very much here and supportive as is his family, but yes, I agree, why compound difficulties? I am not sure what the hurry is? Actually, might be best for them to NOT be married for some parts, especially if it might complicate things even more. </p><p>And well, PCs university welcomed her even preeg, but she decided NOT to go there after all, now, becuz she wants to now stay closer to home/familiarity etc...And yesh, I went to college with 3 kids and a sick husband....my goodness.no, it will not be the same as if she had not become preg, but, hey, LOL----she was not all so sure about all the party life part, anyway.....and yeah, why in the world would I throw her out? My goodness, I love her, and dang, I already love the unborn baby, why would I intentionally set them up to fail? DO they need help and support and love? Sure. But that is not limiited to just young persons, most people do depend on parents for many different things-- support, financial, babysitting, hand holding etc. Very very few people of any age or walk of life go thru their life without ever needing some type of hand, help, support etc. I never have had any help....I know first hand how hard life can be.and I sure would not intentionally do that to anyone I love. So, yes, I am here, ready and willing to do anything I can in my power to help easy child and the baby work and grow and get towards their goals.PCs life goals have not changed at all.....they are still the same goals she HAS had....and they are still attainable. Yes, it might be a little harder, but. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p>Now yes, sure I wish I could wave some magic wand and make life be 100% perfect, but, I have yet to figure out exactly what is "perfect" anyway? and my experience tells me even if you have "perfect" "things" happen, anyway and rock the boat. people lose jobs, people fall out of love, gas prices shoot up to such insane costs NOONE can afford anything.....people get in accidents, get hurt, get sick, and Life changes and perfection goes to the wayside. How do we know if she would have not become preg till age 30, that at that time she might not be fighting some devastating chronic illness? How do we know even if she were done with school and married and living in a 2 story house with a picket fence, something might happen to her husband? </p><p>Sometimes ya just gotta go with the flow. So, we are trying to. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Yes, she had birth control....and it happened anyway. That happens all the time to all kinds of women of any age and whatever. High power career women, etc....it happens. </p><p></p><p>And anyone could get complications, too. This is not something easy child went out and caused directly. Whatchya gonna do? It's life. ANd life goes on. and...in this case, LOL----a new Life will (hopefully) come forth.....how exciting is THAT? </p><p></p><p>So, we are hanging in here.....she is nibbling some fresh fruit right now, at her request....she seems tohave a craving for rasberries, how odd, we never ate many rasberries here at all, but she has requested them twice this week. Sure could be worse, her friend craved....dirt, yes, soil- Yes---PICA. yuk. I am grateful easy child is craving rasberries, LOL.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 174877, member: 1697"] daiseylover, THANK YOU and bless you for saying everything I keep saying...yes, easy child was one week past HS graduation when she found out... and yes, I am faceing the same stuff, are her and boyfriend getting married? Well, um, why? they are not sure yet, and I told them to just WAIT till they figure life out a little more. He is very much here and supportive as is his family, but yes, I agree, why compound difficulties? I am not sure what the hurry is? Actually, might be best for them to NOT be married for some parts, especially if it might complicate things even more. And well, PCs university welcomed her even preeg, but she decided NOT to go there after all, now, becuz she wants to now stay closer to home/familiarity etc...And yesh, I went to college with 3 kids and a sick husband....my goodness.no, it will not be the same as if she had not become preg, but, hey, LOL----she was not all so sure about all the party life part, anyway.....and yeah, why in the world would I throw her out? My goodness, I love her, and dang, I already love the unborn baby, why would I intentionally set them up to fail? DO they need help and support and love? Sure. But that is not limiited to just young persons, most people do depend on parents for many different things-- support, financial, babysitting, hand holding etc. Very very few people of any age or walk of life go thru their life without ever needing some type of hand, help, support etc. I never have had any help....I know first hand how hard life can be.and I sure would not intentionally do that to anyone I love. So, yes, I am here, ready and willing to do anything I can in my power to help easy child and the baby work and grow and get towards their goals.PCs life goals have not changed at all.....they are still the same goals she HAS had....and they are still attainable. Yes, it might be a little harder, but. :-) Now yes, sure I wish I could wave some magic wand and make life be 100% perfect, but, I have yet to figure out exactly what is "perfect" anyway? and my experience tells me even if you have "perfect" "things" happen, anyway and rock the boat. people lose jobs, people fall out of love, gas prices shoot up to such insane costs NOONE can afford anything.....people get in accidents, get hurt, get sick, and Life changes and perfection goes to the wayside. How do we know if she would have not become preg till age 30, that at that time she might not be fighting some devastating chronic illness? How do we know even if she were done with school and married and living in a 2 story house with a picket fence, something might happen to her husband? Sometimes ya just gotta go with the flow. So, we are trying to. :-) Yes, she had birth control....and it happened anyway. That happens all the time to all kinds of women of any age and whatever. High power career women, etc....it happens. And anyone could get complications, too. This is not something easy child went out and caused directly. Whatchya gonna do? It's life. ANd life goes on. and...in this case, LOL----a new Life will (hopefully) come forth.....how exciting is THAT? So, we are hanging in here.....she is nibbling some fresh fruit right now, at her request....she seems tohave a craving for rasberries, how odd, we never ate many rasberries here at all, but she has requested them twice this week. Sure could be worse, her friend craved....dirt, yes, soil- Yes---PICA. yuk. I am grateful easy child is craving rasberries, LOL. [/QUOTE]
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