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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 459634" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>I don't know, Janet. Maybe the punishment thing is even a red herring. What I do know for certain is that if you talk to and deal with J from a basis of affection, warmth and a certain flexibility, he will be eating out of your hand. You can be firm with him and he will do what you want when you want. If you are nagging, critical, punitive in tone and approach, he can become monstrous (less so at school than at home but it still operates in the two places). I don't know why it is like this. But I do know that it is good for both the adults and the child when you find the right way to handle him...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 459634, member: 11227"] I don't know, Janet. Maybe the punishment thing is even a red herring. What I do know for certain is that if you talk to and deal with J from a basis of affection, warmth and a certain flexibility, he will be eating out of your hand. You can be firm with him and he will do what you want when you want. If you are nagging, critical, punitive in tone and approach, he can become monstrous (less so at school than at home but it still operates in the two places). I don't know why it is like this. But I do know that it is good for both the adults and the child when you find the right way to handle him... [/QUOTE]
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