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Putting 12 yo difficult child into Hospital
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 275014" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I think it's displaced anger. He doesn't want his son to need hospitalization. He doesn't want to admit his son stole. He maybe thinks "Her kids are ok, and mine isn't" and resents that too. I think the two of you need to go into therapy to talk about everything with a third person involved. At least, that's what I'd want to do. Hub has a lot inside of him, probably some guilt and shame and leftover denial. But at this point in time, I wouldn't push him about the things his DS has done because he just dropped him off at the hospital. That had to be grueling. And the fact is, his child is not doing well and may never do well--and I'm sure he is facing that--and it's not easy to face. </p><p></p><p>I hope the hospital stay helps him. My guess is that SS won't be with "the crazies." They must have a child's unit. I had to take a foster child to a psychiatric ward and the actual ward itself was child-centric and pleasant. The staff was kind.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 275014, member: 1550"] Well, I think it's displaced anger. He doesn't want his son to need hospitalization. He doesn't want to admit his son stole. He maybe thinks "Her kids are ok, and mine isn't" and resents that too. I think the two of you need to go into therapy to talk about everything with a third person involved. At least, that's what I'd want to do. Hub has a lot inside of him, probably some guilt and shame and leftover denial. But at this point in time, I wouldn't push him about the things his DS has done because he just dropped him off at the hospital. That had to be grueling. And the fact is, his child is not doing well and may never do well--and I'm sure he is facing that--and it's not easy to face. I hope the hospital stay helps him. My guess is that SS won't be with "the crazies." They must have a child's unit. I had to take a foster child to a psychiatric ward and the actual ward itself was child-centric and pleasant. The staff was kind. [/QUOTE]
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