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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 483304" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>He is in full glory now.... Went to get pie and he grabbed it. I took it back thus pie was all over my hands. I threw it away. He just slipped into the lock pit and now is in that stuck place. Everything that has ever gone wrong ever is being brought up. He is staying in control just enough that when I remind him that I will not allow unsafe behavior nomatter what or why, he will go away and sit and breathe for a few seconds and then he starts up again. I am trying to just stay calm and type.... He finally has been quiet for about 50 seconds, maybe we are on the other side. He had picked up a tuna can to throw at me but I warned him I would call for help and he put it down. but was still jumping out of his skin. Since we have never had such serious safety issues before, this is new to him. Needing such a strong, no earning his way out of it kind of situation in our home. I usually can allow him to earn his way to priveleges but this is not negotiable. Not ready for that yet. If his switch can flip this quickly, then it is just not safe. </p><p></p><p>Still not yelling anymore. And he just said, mom, I need to start over. I am calm now. I am going to be nice so I can watch tv tonight. I said, well that would be great but you need to find away to fix what happened. He said, I'm sorry. I said sorry only works if you never do it again, so think of another way to earn your way back to tv. He said, I will go potty and flush the toilet....!!! (OK, trying to be serious here and one of those automatic laughs came out) He said, really I will! I said, well, I think there are a few things you can pick up...like all your laundry and stuff. </p><p></p><p>Darn, he hears people outside again.... yelling to see who is there again. YUCK please let him just go do the chores. </p><p></p><p>Ok, quiet again...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 483304, member: 12886"] He is in full glory now.... Went to get pie and he grabbed it. I took it back thus pie was all over my hands. I threw it away. He just slipped into the lock pit and now is in that stuck place. Everything that has ever gone wrong ever is being brought up. He is staying in control just enough that when I remind him that I will not allow unsafe behavior nomatter what or why, he will go away and sit and breathe for a few seconds and then he starts up again. I am trying to just stay calm and type.... He finally has been quiet for about 50 seconds, maybe we are on the other side. He had picked up a tuna can to throw at me but I warned him I would call for help and he put it down. but was still jumping out of his skin. Since we have never had such serious safety issues before, this is new to him. Needing such a strong, no earning his way out of it kind of situation in our home. I usually can allow him to earn his way to priveleges but this is not negotiable. Not ready for that yet. If his switch can flip this quickly, then it is just not safe. Still not yelling anymore. And he just said, mom, I need to start over. I am calm now. I am going to be nice so I can watch tv tonight. I said, well that would be great but you need to find away to fix what happened. He said, I'm sorry. I said sorry only works if you never do it again, so think of another way to earn your way back to tv. He said, I will go potty and flush the toilet....!!! (OK, trying to be serious here and one of those automatic laughs came out) He said, really I will! I said, well, I think there are a few things you can pick up...like all your laundry and stuff. Darn, he hears people outside again.... yelling to see who is there again. YUCK please let him just go do the chores. Ok, quiet again... [/QUOTE]
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